Sunday, November 9, 2014

16. For a Lasting Marriage, Marry Someone Your Own Age

            Many factors can sway the success of a marriage, such as the amount of money the couple has, having children, and how long the couple dated before betting married. Age is also a great factor, and the closest in age the couple is, the less chance they have of getting a divorce. A study examined 3,000 recently married and divorced Americans and calculated what factors led to the success or failure of marriages. Scientist Randy Olson made various charts illustrating the findings of that study. One-year difference in age makes the couple have a 3% chance of getting divorces, 5-year differences have an 18% chance, and 10-year differences have a 39% chance of getting divorced. The odds of having a successful marriage with larger gaps such as 20 or 30 years are “almost never in your favor.” A difference in age doesn’t determine the success of a marriage or not. What the study collected are statistics, not destiny. However, problems may arise from a large age difference, so it is better to get married to someone in your own age group.
            Megan Garber, a writer for The Atlantic wrote about the impact age has on marriages. She uses information from a study, which examined couples in America, married and divorced, and portrays the findings of this study in a simple way. She includes graphs from the study in her article, which is good for visual learners, who learn better by seeing graphs rather than reading long paragraphs. She concludes by adding some words of wisdom, saying the conclusions of the study are statics and not destiny, telling people it is okay to marry someone with a different age than them. She was successful in revealing the findings of the study and in encouraging the reader that marriages with large age differences can be just as successful as marriages with small age differences.



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